Double Standards
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Double Standards
DaBattleofSexes is my new blog site. I will be talking about the double standard that men and woman have on each other. First off, not to be sexist, but the standards some men have about woman and there sexual partner count versus your own, needs to go. I'm not saying this because I want to be able to be free, and sleep with who I want without having a label above me. I'm Saying this because it's simply unfair. That standard is setting the wrong example for the woman you want to marry and the kids your going to raise. Reason being is woman look to men for guidance event though we wont admits it, and kids pay close attention to everything without even knowing it. next thing you know there repeating their parents or doing stuff they didn't even know they new just from being around or seeing you as parents do certain things. Influence goes a long ways and we as human need to acknowledge that before we do and say certain things. Be the example you want for your spouse and kids, is what i'm trying to say men. For some woman this standard you have on men hanging out with there "buddies" or "homies" versus you going into town with your girlfriends, needs to go. It is Unfair to the men that your with for you to hang with your girlfriends anytime you want, but when it comes down to them going to shoot some hoops or going out for a beer with the "fellas" they have to hear nagging and bickering. This too is a bad example for your children, because when they see daddy and mommy fighting they tend to develop social symptoms that could affect the future relationships. Also it could push the men away and have them do bad things depending on how much they are feed up with the bickering and nagging. Just to be safe physically and emotionally stop being so uncompromising when it comes to the men your willing to do whatever for.
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